Monday, 27 September 2021

Housefly Mentality


Housefly is one of the common insects - others are ants and cockroach to mention but few - that lives in proximity or close association with human beings. This unique creature feeds on human wastes, water or liquids and foodstuffs including garbage, excreta, animal dung and so on and so forth. Co-habiting with this interesting insect leaves public health issues on its trail. Their ecological role in breaking down or recycling organic matter notwithstanding, houseflies are known to be vectors or causative agents of diseases. In addition, they could constitute unnecessary nuisance to humans in their numbers. 

As this write-up is not about the housefly per se, it will be important to alert readers early about my intention to draw an analogy to human behaviour using “leadership lens” from the subject under scrutiny. I recently watched Fola Daniel Adelesi’s interview on Youtube where he explained the “Crab mentality” - (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCUNTSWScx8). According to Wikipedia, “Crab mentality also known as crab theory, crab in a bucket mentality or crab-bucket effect is a way of thinking best described by the phrase “if I can’t have it, neither can you”. The metaphor is derived from a pattern of behaviour noted in crabs when they are trapped in a bucket. While any one crab could easily escape, its efforts will be undermined by other, ensuring the group’s collective demise”.

Whereas “crab mentality” addresses group behaviour, the “housefly mentality” discussed here could apply to either individual or corporate organisation’s behaviour that have potential for actualizing unintended consequence(s). As a young boy growing up, I used to wonder why a housefly that perched on sweet drinks finds it difficult to withdraw. In such delicate situation, the housefly lacks both self-awareness and situational awareness without which self-discipline is impossible to activate. Embedded in self-discipline is self-control which is the ability to regulate or alter one’s responses to avoid undesired behaviours. Self-discipline is the ability to control yourself in such a manner that you work hard or behave in certain ways without external parties’ influence.

Housefly doesn’t intend to die in sweet drinks and likewise any individual involved in unethical “enjoyment” will self-destruct surreptitiously. Leading through storytelling is not new. African folktales or what is also known as "tales by moonlight" had been variously accredited with imparting moral lessons for work and life situations. The tell-tales of corporate organisations like Enron and WorldCom have become landmark leadership and management case-studies on ethical standards. Desire for illicit wealth, fame and power feed greed. Insatiable greed leads to self-crucifixion. At individual level, it’s important to demonstrate high level of self-discipline so you don’t end the way of the recalcitrant housefly.



Saturday, 18 September 2021

LEADERSHIP GOT BORN (91 to 100)

As previously hinted in my last post, Leadership G.O.T B.O.R.N - birthed (or coined) from acronym for Group OTen Blocks ORefreshing Nuggets - has reached milestone one hundred (100); deserving of 100 thunderous applause. Hurrah! This is where that famous quote comes to mind - "Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can." - Arthur Ashe. All you need to start that venture is starting.

As usual, you have ten (10) nuggets for your delight in this series. Kindly drop the gift of feedback in the appropriate form below. You need to sign-in to Google Account to be able to leave your comments on the blog otherwise you can do so when posted on LinkedIn. Have a great day!

1. Symbolic expression: Bichi was not a 'bitch' after all as key politicians openly (or unexpectedly) demonstrated unity and affection. Only fools make enemies for their sake. #nugget91

2. Learning should be life-long. Otherwise, breeding more technically 'obsolete individuals' will hurt the world big time. #nugget92

3. "Pseudo-scandal" is when celebrities 'play ludo on others' head' to gain maximum impact. Learn "Pseudo-silence" for 'one-one goalless draw' to match. #nugget93

4. My #nuggets address hearts and minds mirroring the palms of our hands. Watch-out for Philosophies, Action-steps, Learning, Mind-sets or Success-tips (P.A.L.M.S). #nugget94

5. When someone tells you he's an expert, do your homework else you'll pay the costly price of ignorance. #nugget95

6. Africa is systematically disadvantaged because followers don't learn from failure and leaders won't learn from success. #nugget96

7. The business leader is not the business but his/her people are. He/she's on top of the business to the extent his/her people are in control of resources including plant and machinery. #nugget97

8. Seeking righteousness & peace: Never attempt madness where crazy tendencies abound. No one has monopoly of insanity. #nugget98

9. Calm down: You can't be angry or hateful and be 'reasonable'. It's either you are in control or under control. #nugget99

10. There is a river in someone's heart yet stagnant as a well. Turn on the 'switch' for the flow that blesses you and the world at large from 'the river that never runs dry'. #nugget100




Wednesday, 8 September 2021

LEADERSHIP GOT BORN #7

Few days from now, I will hit one hundred (100) nuggets. What a milestone achievement? It started with the first, and then the second. By the end of today (8th September 2021), it will stand at whopping ninety-six (96) nuggets. Leadership G.O.T B.O.R.N (acronym for Group Of Ten Blocks Of Refreshing Nuggets) is a "child of necessity" so to say. 

In this series, you have ten (10) nuggets for your delight. Please, enjoy it and if possible, give me the gift of feedback in the appropriate form below. Note that you need to sign-in to Google Account to enable you leave comments here otherwise you can do so when posted on LinkedIn - Thanks and have a great day!

1. Power of continuity: Progress stalls where legacies of predecessors are egoistically truncated. Accelerated progress rides on continual improvement. #nugget81

2. Don't be a leader whose life is defined by "do as I say" and not "do as I do". Talking is easy, but you do well in perfecting "doing". #nugget82

3. Life is kind to the living. Death is no respecter of persons. Both life and death answer to God. Be wise unto God. #nugget83

4. Greeting is to greatness what plant is to the planet. Man is at the center. Be human and humane. #nugget84

5. IBB and guilt: Apology is not a sign of weakness. It takes courage, thoughtfulness and self-leadership to say "I am sorry". #nugget85

6. Can we simply say, good morning or good money? You know the difference. #nugget86

7. Why the "hush"? Is money a servant or the master? M(eans) O(ut) of N(eeds) E(specially) Y(ours) can't be the controller except for "puppies"? #nugget87

8. In relationship you will have issues or differences. You don't avoid conflict, you resolve it nicely. #nugget88

9. Energy drives leadership. That's why focus swings from being energetic to synergies like "dancing pendulum". #nugget89

10. A big problem may not necessarily require complex solution. There's wisdom in simplicity - keeping it simple. #nugget90