Monday, 27 September 2021

Housefly Mentality


Housefly is one of the common insects - others are ants and cockroach to mention but few - that lives in proximity or close association with human beings. This unique creature feeds on human wastes, water or liquids and foodstuffs including garbage, excreta, animal dung and so on and so forth. Co-habiting with this interesting insect leaves public health issues on its trail. Their ecological role in breaking down or recycling organic matter notwithstanding, houseflies are known to be vectors or causative agents of diseases. In addition, they could constitute unnecessary nuisance to humans in their numbers. 

As this write-up is not about the housefly per se, it will be important to alert readers early about my intention to draw an analogy to human behaviour using “leadership lens” from the subject under scrutiny. I recently watched Fola Daniel Adelesi’s interview on Youtube where he explained the “Crab mentality” - (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCUNTSWScx8). According to Wikipedia, “Crab mentality also known as crab theory, crab in a bucket mentality or crab-bucket effect is a way of thinking best described by the phrase “if I can’t have it, neither can you”. The metaphor is derived from a pattern of behaviour noted in crabs when they are trapped in a bucket. While any one crab could easily escape, its efforts will be undermined by other, ensuring the group’s collective demise”.

Whereas “crab mentality” addresses group behaviour, the “housefly mentality” discussed here could apply to either individual or corporate organisation’s behaviour that have potential for actualizing unintended consequence(s). As a young boy growing up, I used to wonder why a housefly that perched on sweet drinks finds it difficult to withdraw. In such delicate situation, the housefly lacks both self-awareness and situational awareness without which self-discipline is impossible to activate. Embedded in self-discipline is self-control which is the ability to regulate or alter one’s responses to avoid undesired behaviours. Self-discipline is the ability to control yourself in such a manner that you work hard or behave in certain ways without external parties’ influence.

Housefly doesn’t intend to die in sweet drinks and likewise any individual involved in unethical “enjoyment” will self-destruct surreptitiously. Leading through storytelling is not new. African folktales or what is also known as "tales by moonlight" had been variously accredited with imparting moral lessons for work and life situations. The tell-tales of corporate organisations like Enron and WorldCom have become landmark leadership and management case-studies on ethical standards. Desire for illicit wealth, fame and power feed greed. Insatiable greed leads to self-crucifixion. At individual level, it’s important to demonstrate high level of self-discipline so you don’t end the way of the recalcitrant housefly.



24 comments:

  1. Self discipline is the key. This will give birth to self control. Housefly mentally is loaded and very educative Sir. I am always thrilled and lifted by your thoughtful write up ✍. Many thanks Sir.

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    1. Thanks for this feedback. It's well appreciated. have a great day!

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  2. The housefly metaphor really got me reflecting on the devastating cost associated with lack of self discipline. Great lesson creatively delivered! Many thanks Amos.

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    1. Thanks again Vitalis. Trust you are having great fun out there. Takegood care of yourself. Shalom

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  3. Self discipline is key to everything we do. Otherwise it will leave us with both short and long term consequences.Thank you sir for the thoughtful write up

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    1. Thanks Akinwale. The feedback is. Well appreciated

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  4. The housefly lacks both self-awareness and situational awareness without which self-discipline is impossible to activate.
    Self-discipline is key to everyone to achieve their goal. A nice piece as always.

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    1. Dear Babs, your regular feedbacks on the FSU WhatsApp group are well appreciated. Please keep it up!

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  5. Great article, I enjoy reading your articles and pick learnings each time. Thank you Amos.

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  6. Another masterclass as always. Thank you so much Sir for this leadership insight. We can't underestimate the importance of self discipline and situational awareness.

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  7. Thank you Amos. It is always a delight reading your lines. This is another masterpiece delivered creatively. Message is clear as always. Self Awareness/Situational Awareness, a direct link and impact on Self Discipline.

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    1. Thanks Olatunde. Broke protocol on reflection after your feedback. Just to let you know that posts as this will continue along with the nuggets.

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  8. Thanks for sharing this great piece sir. It clearly helped bring to mind a popular Yoruba adage on this 'housefly mentality"

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  9. Interesting perspective linking the proverbial housefly's lack of self discipline and control to how we as humans can self destruct, when we engage in such. There are deep lessons here, thanks for sharing this great piece, oga Amos.

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    1. Quite interesting indeed. Thanks for the gift of feedback

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  10. Self awareness leads to self mastery and discipline seals it perfectly for an end game. Crab mentality got my attention

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    1. Indeed, I love the perspective on self mastery. Thanks for the feedback.

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  11. Be about what you are meant to be about; know when it is within boundaries to pause for some "enjoyment", and be on your way when that is no longer the case...

    Thank you very much Sir.

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    1. Hello "good things", thanks for the feedback/perspective. Cheers!

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  12. Great lesson from this metaphor of house fly mentality. Indeed this is aplicable to all walks of life. Our politicians and institutions leaders etc need to read this as well. Thanks Amos.

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    1. Indeed, internalizing/personalizing the lessons comes first and having political/institutional leaders operationalize the lessons would be truly transformational. Thanks

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